The Alchemy of Lovemaking – Ritualistic Dance

The Alchemy of Lovemaking – spiritualized sexuality

ParaTan Lovemaking with the Power of Sound.

This ritualistic dance of union is termed Mithuna (the pair-body or two-in-one) or Shiva-Sakthi dance. An interior aspiration to accomplish the alchemical masterpiece of merging the Male and Female. The Male – the Solar principle with the Female – the Lunar one in order to become the perfect human being.

Mithuna has nothing in common with sexual orgies. It symbolizes the eternal union of Spirit and Nature and epitomizes the fulfillment of contemplative love or spiritualized sexuality, unlike what is popularly considered by unlearned Hindus and Westerners. The sexual act does not occur within ParaTan sessions, as it is a Lovemaking Worship that need not necessarily precedes the sexual act.

Deep knowledge of one’s own sexuality

The alchemy of Lovemaking, therefore, involves a deep knowledge of one’s own sexuality, a total sharing of one’s sexual energy, and the existence of pure and unconditional love.

ParaTan Inner Sakthi Yogic Lovemaking can become a profound meditative worship in which the participants become living embodiments of the Divine.

Like Tantra Yoga uses a complex symbolism of the subtle human anatomy. The spinal column represents the axis of life, having its roots in the Underworld and its branches in Heaven. The base of the spinal tree is the site of the great source of energy, the symbolic image of the divine power (vitality).

Awakening Mother Kundalini

Meditative lovemaking consists of the awakening of this divine power – Mother Kundalini, as she is highly spirited, she needs controlled ascent from the roots of the spinal tree to the branches. This process defines spiritual enlightenment and the final liberation of the human Self.

When the Serpent stays at the base of the spinal tree, it manifests as sexual energy; when moving upward, it is called Kundalini and at the top of the tree, it manifests as spirit.

During the ParaTan ritual, Mother Kundalini is awakened and raised, being eventually directed toward the contemplation of the Divine embodied in woman and man.

Lovemaking needs the combined forces of the body, the soul, and the spirit as a whole.

For us, the importance of these ideas resides less in technical details and more in their psychological value. These ideas represent a highly evolved attitude toward relationships, sexuality, and life.

If these ideas would be assimilated by modern civilization and put to work, they would contribute unexpectedly to clarifying our confusion related to marriage and sexuality.

Contemplative Lovemaking makes it possible to spontaneously perceive our relationship with the Universe. The actual “technique” of lovemaking is not primarily important, because here there is no result to attain.

In this approach, both man and woman are spontaneously on the path of self-discovery, without judging or expecting anything in advance, but living passionately that which exists at the moment.

By this, is not only meant the time that is measured in seconds, hours, days, etc. but chiefly a psychic attribute (which could be called a degree of excellence) that allows events to happen in their own time, an inner rhythm that defines a no-hurry attitude. This is a fundamentally essential attitude without which spirituality is impossible.

The Tantric and Taoist modality of no-ego-involvement allows an endless exchange of love

This approach is much easier for women, due to their basically passive, receptive nature. But once a man gets used to this spiritual approach to sexuality, he can prolong lovemaking indefinitely in time, offering to his woman the greatest possible degree of satisfaction and fulfillment, together with a quick and profound path leading to self-discovery and enlightenment.

One of the first steps of contemplative sexuality is the discovery of the profundity and pleasure of the most simple contacts, which are generally considered either as having little to do with the sexual act or as being preliminary to it.

It is, for example, discovering the beauty of seeing your loved one, of touching him or her, of listening to his or her voice. There is one condition though: do not expect these contacts to lead to anything, do not force them to lead to anything but let them follow their natural course and stay in a state of detached expectancy.

Thus received, the outer and the inner world become charged with an incredible intensity of life, and we perceive ourselves as containing, to a certain degree, the outer reality reflected in our inner world.

ParaTan Ritual Circle

The sound circles can also be called psychic lovemaking, which implies the careful discovery of your Lover.

During the ParaTan ritual, the most important activity is the continuous act of contemplation – all the rest being secondary from the very beginning.

If this fact is not understood, Para-Tan worship risks becoming a refined snobbishness without any spiritual significance.

It is a pity that the majority of those who start the practice of Tantra (and even many of those who consider themselves advanced) think of it as a skill that will be attained through the practice of certain techniques.

There is nothing to attain! There is no effort, no goal, and no path. The only thing that might require some effort is to give up, to unlearn our prejudices about sexuality. After this has been done, Tantra is what remains.

Tantra is a Way of Life

Tantra is a way of life expounded by Shiva and the Great Mother as fit teachings for the fourth-Hindu age, the Kali Age. In the era of degeneracy and destruction, the text continues to advise the Sadhaka or Tantric worshipper, on every conceivable subject.

Subjects such as cosmology, astrology; different types of men and women, the significance of the chakra, or psychic centers in the body and channels through which the prana or vital life energy flows, method of raising the Kundalini energy.

Various types of worship, including mantras and yantras; rituals involving the worship of the Goddess in the form of virgin girls; of yoni-puja or womb worship; the rites of purification to be carried out before sexual worship; the position of meditation and sexual practice; prayers to the Goddess and Her consort; basic health care and how to bring up children.

Tantric yogis, whatever they do, are aware to keep the mind and organs free of emotional, and environmental tension, environmental mental pollution, and toxins, and maintain a smooth, abundant, and balanced flow of universal energy throughout the body. That is the secret of good health and long life, goals that all can adapt with a bit of endeavor.

Come to India and explore the Divine art of Lovemaking.

Namaste – May the Divine Mother of Creation Grace your Life